Everyone knows that men’s profiles, on the whole, are even worse than women.We can debate why, but, for the most part, I think it’s ignorance.When women ask me (and boy, do they ask me), why do all the WRONG men write to them, I always have a two part response: 1) By your standards, 95% of men are the wrong men.So don’t be too surprised if you’re not enamored with 9 out of 10 emails you receive. 2) Your profile is likely not attracting the small percentage of “right men” out there – which is something that we can easily change. We spent an hour talking about this today, and I was thrilled to say that my client felt a thousand times better after the call than she did when we started the call. How do you keep on going when you’re successful at everything else in life, yet every romantic partner you touch turns to crap?
This is partly because they have unusual features that may divide opinion, but also because men think there is less competition While Holly Willoughby (left) is often described as beautiful, Sarah Jessica Parker (right) tends to get a varied response.
As long as women keep receiving a steady stream of generic emails that say, “Hey, great profile. Would love to learn more about you,” they’re convinced that they actually have great profiles. The only reason that many attractive women get these “great profile” emails is that the men writing to them need SOMETHING to say.