We do, however, sometimes need a bracing punch in the face about what, exactly, we want so badly when we go trolling for partners in smoky bars, at singles soccer league, online.Don’t worry, Kipnis’ very entertaining look at all our dumb societal ideas about love will hardly turn you celibate, or even unromantic.Set aside your annoyance with author Elizabeth Gilbert’s breakthrough, .(It’s not her fault the movie made it worse.) Here she merges the confessional memoir style that made her famous with the journalism that she practiced for years before that in an examination of what makes marriage marriage.
The statistical truth is, most dudes are average at making money, attracting women, and having sex. This is a nonstarter—nothing can justify that sacrifice.” And after years of investing your energy into something you aren’t really even passionate about “your job description becomes your self description.”Fuck. It will help you focus on the most important things in life and free your time to live fully.2) Sex God Method (sorry, this one is tough to find these days)What is is about: How to be better at sex. What is does: Teaches you that sex isn’t mechanical.
Translation: they’re not particularly good at those things. Good sex has little to do with duration, or measurements, or numbers or all the things young boys tease one another about. Trust me when I say that it will affect your relationships in every single way.
And I’m about to imply that the solution is reading 7 books with ridiculously cheesy, self-helpy titles. Hint: The answer does NOT involve compound interest.
Here are five tried and tested books for helping you get good at approaching, talking to, keeping and making love to women.
The Game by Neil Struass Part fiction, part fact, The Game was released about 6 years ago to much hype and buzz.
It has everything to do with frames and communication. Statistically speaking, you’re probably pretty average at sex. Read this and you’ll be better than 97% of guys by TONIGHT. Even if you think you know everything there is to know on the subject, this book is worth a read.3) How to Win Friends and Influence People What it is about: How to make the people around you happier while getting more of what you want and need from your relationships. Destroys shitty habits and replaces them with ones that will make people feel good being around you.