Every relationship is different, though, so please don’t take my little guide below as the end all and be all of French dating.
To me, it seems that French guys are more direct without all the mind games.
Dating isn’t really a game at all and is straightforward and uncomplicated.
No ladies, the concept of dating several guys in France kind of goes out the window once you seal the deal with a kiss. If you’re out in a rowdy bar and everyone is just looking to have a good time, this rule might not apply.
And the whole point of being exclusive is to build something with someone that you trust, are falling for, and care for. They want to kiss you, they want to have sex with you. They’re also very vocal so they’ll woo you with I love you’s and flattery to no end. If a Frenchman is telling you he loves you after a week and is pushing you for sex, you may well smell a rat. The key is to slow the pace down as much as you can (but not too much or they’ll run).
A kiss just can’t catapult you into that kind of exclusivity. Date a few other Frenchman (you don’t need to tell them).
Tip: these guys are sleazeballs that just want to get in your pants.That is a good thing and I have learned volumns about how to treat the world with compassion and respect from these wise fellows.